Archive for March, 2011

Mar
30
2011

In August 2010, Ward and Dixie Tanneberg made the long trek down under to Australia to be the guest speakers at the first “Fresh Horizons” Conference in the state of Queensland, Australia. The conference was attended by 94 people who found Ward’s messages titled “A Unique 21st Century Opportunity”; “A Unique 21st Century Challenge”; and “A Unique 21st Century Prize”, inspiring and challenging.

Dixie’s session on “The Power of Mentoring” left people wanting to hear more. The Tanneberg’s also took part in a Regional Seniors Convention over three days following the conference. With age percentages similar to the United States of America, Australia and New Zealand is poised to enter a new phase of ministry and outreach to those over 50 in our communities.

In August 2011, Ward and Dixie will return, this time to speak for the first Fresh Horizons 50+ Ministry Leadership Conference in Tauranga, New Zealand. The following week they will speak at the Fresh Horizons 50+ Ministry Leadership Conference in Caloundra QLD Australia, and in a Regional Seniors Conference in the same area.

Fresh Horizons has been established by Richard and Shirley Pearce along with a board of management, to influence, resource and educate those engaged in ministry to people 50+. The Pearce’s have attended the 2008 and 2009 CASA Leadership Conferences in the USA and are looking to forge strong and ongoing links between CASA Network and Fresh Horizons.

—A Report from Fresh Horizons

 

 

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SMALL BITES … ADVENTURES IN DOWNSIZING

Remember the good old days … TV sit-dramas were fairly decent in content.  The Love Boat which ran from the late seventies to the mid-eighties and Hotel in the early to mid-eighties were popular.  Both of these series had a venue which allowed the writers to create stories about various guests, more or less from the viewpoint of the staff.  Of course, the writers had an unending supply of material as the people would come and go. Because of downsizing, I’m living that experience!  People come into the hotel and into my life. They stay for a while and leave.  New ones come and we all get to share a portion of life together.

I found myself saddened when two of the young men, who had been living at the hotel since we arrived, were returning to India that evening.  There is a group of six – now minus two – Indian young men residing in my ‘neighborhood’.  Some work together and some have jobs unrelated to each other, but they have bonded, taking all of their meals together, seeing the sights the Bay Area has to offer, and forging friendships based on their common situation and heritage.  Chatting with these delightful young men about India and America is an everyday occurrence which I enjoy.

What seemed to be such a frightening step has pleasantly resulted in an enriched life.  Living temporarily in a hotel has brought many fun experiences my way.  Except for the continual search for quarters for the laundry machines, I’d say it’s just about perfect – for now.

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Grilled ‘Tandoori’ Chicken

Spicy Rice

Cool Cucumbers

Nan

Indian Chai Tea

Mango Custard

RECIPES

Grilled ‘Tandoori’ Chicken

Look on the internet for marinade for the chicken and grilling instructions.

Spicy Rice

1 shallot, finely diced and sautéed in 1 teaspoon each of butter and peanut oil

2 cups Basmati rice

3 cups chicken stock

1 cup water

1/3 canned coconut milk

2 teaspoons salt

1 tablespoon yellow curry powder

Toasted coconut flakes

Snipped fresh curly leaf parsley

Bring chicken stock, water and coconut milk to a boil.  Add salt and curry powder.  Stir in rice and bring back to boil.  Cover and cook on medium heat until rice is tender – about 20 minutes.  Remove from heat and stir in sautéed shallots, golden raisins and parsley.  Place on rice on platter around the grilled chicken pieces and garnish with toasted coconut.

Cool Cucumbers

4 English cucumbers

2 large Fuji apples

Juice of ½ large lemon

½ teaspoon salt

¾ cup plain yoghurt

Peel the cucumbers and cut in half lengthwise.  Remove seeds by scraping a teaspoon

along the seed chamber. Core and peel the apples.  Dice apples and cucumbers into       half-inch pieces.  Toss the apples with lemon juice and place them along with the   cucumbers in a mixing bowl. Chill the mixture. Just            before serving add the salt and             yoghurt to dress the cucumbers and apples.  Serve in individual small bowls.  Garnish     with a dill sprig.

Nan

Nan, Indian bread, is available at most regular markets and comes in different

flavors.  It can be fairly spicy, so look at the ingredients.

Indian Chai Tea

Fill tall glasses with party ice.  Pour Chai spiced black tea (such as Oregon brand) to 2/3             full and top off with vanilla or almond soy milk.  This milk can be found in the       refrigerated case with regular milk.  I like the brand called Silk.  Sweeten with a little    sugar or no calorie sweetener. On a long wooden skewer, thread           a chunk of pineapple, mango and a strawberry and a couple of mint leaves.  Push to one end of the skewer.       Place the empty end down in the drink allowing the fruit to stick up above the glass rim.

Mango Custard

Make your favorite tapioca pudding and stir in a puree of fresh mango before it is set.     Transfer to individual clear glass bowls and chill. Garnish with a mint leaf and a cube of        fresh mango.

Tip: Recognize opportunities to show God’s love to others.  Sometimes the world comes to you.

Matthew 28:19 & 20 ….go into all the world and share the Gospel……

 

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Celibacy can be a choice in life, or a condition imposed by circumstances.

While attending a Marriage Encounter Weekend at our church, my wife and I listened to the instructor declare, ‘It is essential that husbands and wives know the things that are important to each other.”

He then addressed the men,
‘Can you name and describe your wife’s favorite flower?’

I leaned over, touched my wife’s hand gently, and whispered,

Gold Medal-All-Purpose, isn’t it?

And thus began my life of celibacy………

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Mar
30
2011

The new old are active, involved and anything but “old.”

Amy Hanson was a recent guest on Ed Stetzer’s Thursday-is-for-Thinkers blog site (edstetzer.com).

When I first started in pastoral ministry, the big rage was how to reach the baby boomer. I even attended an Elmer Towns conference by that same title in Buffalo, New York. Though I wasn’t a boomer, I found fascinating the need to reach this rather large generation. Later, we’d hear much about what was then called Generation X (what my generation would be called), and the focus continued to evolve toward subsequent generations. We need to consider, however, as generations age, how does the church respond? Today’s post deals with that issue.

I am glad to have Amy Hanson here at the blog. Amy is a speaker and consultant in the area of older adult ministry, as well as the author of Baby Boomers and Beyond: Tapping the Ministry Talents and Passions of Adults over 50, in which she reminds us of the work still to be done making disciples in the older generation. She regularly blogs at amyhanson.org. I’m glad to to have her here today, and hope that you will join the discussion.

Well, it’s here. The year 2011. And people like me who have spent their entire ministry, work and academic life immersed in the field of aging and older adult ministry have been anticipating this year for a long time. Just a few weeks ago when January 1st rolled around, the first of 78 million baby boomers turned 65. Pew Research Center reports that 10,000 adults are turning 65 each day and that in 20 years, almost 20% of our population will be over the age of 65.

In the past month there has been a surge of news articles and stories on the topic of aging baby boomers, a group I like to refer to as “the new old.” These are adults who are primarily between the age of 50 to 70 and view the later years of life in a completely different way than their parent’s generation. The new old are active, involved and anything but “old.” Government, health care, fashion merchandising and a host of other businesses are giving serious attention to the implications of this huge demographic. And it’s time the Church enters into the conversation. How do we respond to this phenomenon? What do we need to know?

Here are 4 key issues we must consider.

1. The new old are approaching aging in a much different way than preceding generations. For starters, leading-edge baby boomers and those just slightly older do not like the word “senior” and they reject just about anything that smacks of old age.

I’ve had more than one frustrated church leader tell me, “We can’t get those sixty-year olds to attend our senior adult activities!” One primary reason for this is because the new old do not consider themselves to be seniors and for the most part, they are never going to fold into the existing senior adult ministry at a church. They are not interested in potluck luncheons or bus trips. While some of these ministry ideas have worked in the past, they are not going to reach this new generation of older adults. Community senior centers are discovering this and making adjustments like taking out the shuffleboard court and putting in fitness centers. Some retirement communities are even removing the names “senior” and “retirement” from their titles. The church will need to follow suit.

A handful of churches across the country are creating boomer ministries (separate from their senior adult ministries) and are calling these new ministries Encore, Adult Impact or simply Boomer ministry. Whatever the format, we need different ministry names, fresh ideas and a whole new approach to how we do things.

2. The new old are reinventing retirement. The New Retirement Survey conducted by Merrill Lynch found that 76% of boomers want to keep working in some fashion during retirement. Many adults want to retire from their current career and launch into something new, like part-time work or a job that has flexibility. The types of jobs boomers are most interested in involve working in the nonprofit sector, starting their own business, or just doing a fun job that is less stressful. One thing is certain. Boomers do not plan to sit in a rocking chair and simply relax for the next 20 years of their lives. They want their retirement years to include a component of work – either paid employment or a significant volunteer role.

3. Not all older adults are Christians. I know that sounds so simple, but think about this for a moment. Many churches invest a lot of time, staff and resources into children’s and youth ministry – which is important – but few churches are intentional and strategic about reaching the millions of older adults who do not have a relationship with Christ. Ironically, there are some characteristics among 50+ age adults that make them very receptive to the gospel. They are facing a number of life transitions such as caring for aging parents, concerns about their own heath and mortality, financial worries, and evolving relationships with their adult children and grandchildren. All of these stresses provide great opportunities for communities of faith to reach out with ministry. Boomers are also receptive because they are searching for purpose. They are entering a new phase of life and are asking questions like, “now that I am getting older, my work life is changing and the children are out of the house, what is it that gives my life meaning?” Obviously, Christ-followers hold the only true answer to that question. I’ve been thrilled to learn of a few church plants and multi-site venues that are purposing to reach out to this age group. But we need more.

4. Aging boomers have the potential to make a tremendous Kingdom impact with their lives. They have time, experience and resources and they want to participate in purposeful endeavors that will benefit others. As these adults enter their retirement years, they desire to do more than staple newsletters, fold bulletins and make coffee. One man said about his retirement: “I want to give my time to ministry through my church, but I’d like to do more than be an usher.” These are adults that can lead community efforts to help with homelessness, give hours each week to mentoring children at an underprivileged school, serve for an extended time overseas, counsel those who are facing unemployment, and on and on the list goes. It is imperative that we open our eyes and recognize the potential of this generation and then find ways to unleash them into ministry. My fear is that if the church does not engage them, they will look elsewhere.

Never before in history have so many adults moved into their later years of life with so much health and vitality. We have a window of opportunity right now to harness the capacity of this enormous generation, to grow them up as disciples of Christ, and to mobilize them for His mission. Let’s not miss the chance.

What are the barriers you’ve seen that keep us from developing robust ministries with aging boomers in our churches and communities? What are you doing in your ministry context to reach out to this age group and tap into their ministry potential? What other comments and ideas do you have about ministry with the new old?

 

 

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The story is that during a recent password audit by Microsoft & Google, it was found that a blonde (why is it always the blonde?) was using the following password:

“MickeyMinniePlutoHueyLouieDeweyDonaldGoofySacramento”

When asked why she had such a long password, she said she was told that it had to be at least 8 characters long and include at least one capital.

 

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I was thinking about The Mystery of Easter

and about what to do when we don’t see what we expected.

(Luke 24:1-8, 13-35; John 20:1-18).

It was early, a little after six on Sunday when the three women arrived in the garden. The sun was rising. They were sure the entrance would be covered. But they didn’t see what they expected. The stone had been rolled away. They went inside, thinking they would find his body. Again, they didn’t see what they expected. Two men stood before them. “He is not here,” they said. “He is risen!” Now they knew.

They hurried back to tell the others. No one believed them, but Peter and John ran to the tomb anyway and went inside. They didn’t see what they expected. They saw burial cloths and the face cloth rolled up by itself.

When they had gone, Mary remained outside the entrance, weeping. At last she bent down to look in. She didn’t see what she expected. Two angels in white were sitting where Jesus had been lying. And when she turned and spoke to a gardener nearby, asking him for Jesus’ body, the ‘gardener’ called her name. “Mary.” This was not what she expected either. But now she knew.

Late that afternoon, two men were walking to the village of Emmaus, seven miles from Jerusalem. A man joined them on the way. He heard them talking of the things that had been told them that day. “What things?” the man asked. They tried to explain.

It was evening. They invited him to stay with them, to share in their perplexity. At the table he took the bread, broke it and gave it to them. They didn’t see what they expected. Instead their eyes were opened. They recognized him. “Didn’t our hearts burn within us while he was speaking with us on the road, while he was explaining the scriptures to us?” Now they knew.

In his book, What the Dog Saw, Malcolm Gladwell recounts a story of the first Gulf war in which two squadrons of F-15E Strike Eagle fighter jets were sent to destroy Scud missiles that Iraq was firing at Israel. They had the latest navigational and targeting device onboard, capable of taking high-resolution infrared photographs from four miles up. How hard could it be to pick out a huge tractor-trailer missile launcher in the middle of the desert? Officials recorded about 100 hits. After the war, the Air Force dispatched a team to determine the effectiveness of the campaign. They didn’t see what they expected. The actual number of definite Scud kills was zero.

The pilots had been operating at night. Depth perception was impaired. Cameras worked only if pointed at the right spot. The right spot was not always obvious. Major General Mike DeCuir, who had flown many of those missions said, “It was like driving down an interstate looking through a soda straw.” They had missed their targets. Now they knew.

There are days like this in everyone’s life. Exciting days. Opportunities abound. Love is in the air. Then, suddenly, change happens. The unexpected takes over. We’re handed a cross instead of a crown. A stone shuts away our best hopes. Weeds of discouragement cover our path. Life is cruel. What-might-have-beens cast unforgiving shadows on our dreams. It really is like driving down an interstate while looking through a soda straw. When you started out, you expected one thing but along the way something else happened.

On a day such as this, go walk a while with a friend. Experience the feeling that you are truly known by someone. Confess your hurts, your misgivings, your disappointments. You’ve come so far. But you didn’t see what you were expecting. So talk about what others say they have seen that you are missing. What’s the point in that, you ask? Confessing faith fatigue without caving in to it. Holding on until you see who is ready to encourage you and help you recover what is missing. That’s the point. And when your eyes are opened, be thrilled! It will not be what you expected. It will be so much better. You will discover that it’s not just your best friend who is with you. It is your Best Friend!

The sun is rising.

The Son is risen.

Now you know.


WHERE IN THE WORLD IS WARD?

2011

Jan 12 – ALOA Board of Directors – Simi Valley CA

Jan 13 – SoCal CASA Luncheon – Fullerton CA

Jan 31-Feb 1 – Assist International Board of Directors – Ripon CA

Feb 10 – Barnabas Breakfast – Costa Mesa CA

Mar 05 – Warm Beach Men’s Advance Conference – Stanwood WA

Apr 27 – Northwest Assemblies of God District Conference – Yakima WA

May 23-June 03 – Israel/Jordan

Aug 10-11 – Fresh Horizons 50+ Ministry Leadership Conference - Tauranga, New Zealand

Aug 18 – Fresh Horizons 50+ Ministry Leadership Conference – Caloundra QLD, Australia

Aug 19-21 Regional Senior’s Retreat – Caloundra QLD, Australia

Sept 24 – The Intergenerational Challenge – Denver CO

Oct 18-20 Mount Hermon Fall Adult Conference – Mount Hermon CA

Nov 08 – CASA Network Board of Directors – Anaheim CA

Nov 09-11 - ILC-Anaheim – The CASA Network International 50+ Ministry Leadership Conference

 

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