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Small Bites … Adventures in Downsizing

Jan Kinzel

 

Raising children and downsizing. Can you guess what these two have in common? Well, neither comes with an instruction manual! It’s pretty much on-the-job training. While shopping for some fancy built-in cabinetry, I met a young craftsman named Anthony. With an artful eye for detail, he will install our beautiful custom-made china cabinets in the two niches in our kitchen/dining area. Anthony needs specific tools in order to do this project: hammers, saws, screwdrivers, drills, and the like.

What tools would be useful for downsizing? Courage, decisiveness, creativity, patience, organizational skills, diligence, attention to details, the ability to face a reality check, humility in some cases, and a supportive group of family and friends are some handy ones to have in the old tool belt. Because God created us with individuality and personality, we have the freedom to develop our own style, setting the course for a unique downsizing experience and results; mine will be different than anyone else’s. There is great satisfaction when all of the planning begins to come together, no matter what style is expressed.

 

In the past few years some new tools have made their way into my kitchen. I find them not only interesting and fun to use but quite helpful as well. Some of them cause the finished dishes to have a more uniform and ‘professional’ appearance. These are some of my new faves!

Rasp  Microplane ® is the brand I recommend. These are hand held zester/graters and they come in extra-fine to coarse and even one that makes ribbons. One of the biggest advantages is the ease of use. Grating parmesan and other hard cheeses makes the presentation of pasta dishes extra-special. Zesting citrus fruit is a breeze with these. Grating chocolate over desserts or lattes is easy!

Mandolin  I think this tool is aptly named because running the food over the blade is somewhat like strumming a mandolin. You can’t beat this for thin slices. There are settings for paper thin to a quarter of an inch. I have trouble making uniform thin slices. The blade is very sharp so there is a food holder device to protect your fingers.

Emersion Blender  Replacing the old method of blending hot sauces and soups by batches in the blender, the emersion or stick blender is used right in the cooking vessel. This is much less messy and much safer than the blender batches.

Spider  The Asian design for the ultimate slotted spoon, use this for removing solid items from liquid. It looks like a small, shallow, metal-mesh basket on a long wooden handle. It can be used in hot oil or boiling water and because it is so open the liquid drains easily back into the pot.

Grill Pan  Pretty much anything that can be grilled on the outdoor grill can be grilled in the grill pan indoors on the range. In some cases, with even better results. The important thing is to allow the pan to get very hot before placing any food on it.

Perfectly Grilled Salmon

To prepare salmon fillets that are crispy & caramelized on the outside and moist & juicy on the inside, pat the fish dry with a paper towel, rub the fillets with olive oil and season generously with salt and pepper. Heat the grill pan so that a drop of water will sizzle on it. Place the fillets skin side up. Grill until flesh side has grill marks – about 4 or 5 minutes. Turn to skin side down and grill about 3 minutes longer. Leave the grill on the burner but turn off the heat. Cover the pan with foil and let sit for 10 minutes. If desired, place a drizzle of olive oil, a small pat of butter and a squeeze of lemon for flavor. Garnish with flat leaf parsley leaves.

Vidalia Chop Wizard  An ‘As Seen on TV’ device, this is my most favorite recent find. I do all sorts of things with this. It is a dicer with two sizes of grids. There is an oblong receptacle with a lever top. The items to be chopped need to be sliced to about half an inch before placing on the grid and the flesh side needs to be face down as chopping through the skin first will ‘squish’ the food. I also use this to make egg salad. Salsas – vegetable and fruit – work great in it.

Perfect Fresh Guacamole

Place the small mincing grid on the Vidalia Chop Wizard and push through the following:

1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and sliced lengthwise
1 Roma tomato, cut into ¼ inch slices
1 large clove garlic, sliced thinly
1 small shallot, sliced thinly
Several leaves of cilantro

Replace the small grid with the larger one and push through 2 ripe avocados. Add 2 teaspoons salt and 1 tablespoon freshly squeezed lemon or lime juice.

Mix thoroughly and transfer to serving bowl set in center of a variety of tortilla chips.  I like to use different colors such as blue, red and white corn chips.

 

 

TIP:  Use the right tools for the job.

Romans 5:4 …perseverance produces character and character hope…

 

 

 

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ILC—Anaheim 2011 CONFERENCE GLEANINGS

Pat Korieth, Gateway Church of the Nazarene, Murrieta, CA

 

They will bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh… (Psalm 92:14)

The J.O.Y. Council of our church sent me, together with Roger and Marlene Bowman and Lisa Watamura, to The CASA Network International Leadership Conference in Orange County last November. I want to thank them for giving me that informative and inspiring opportunity. The conference theme was Influencing the Generations – Refresh your mission. Reconsider your tactics. Renew your purpose. This puts it all in a nutshell – the reason for attending was to refresh and renew what the J.O.Y. Council could bring back to our church family.

Ward Tanneberg, President/Executive Director, CASA Network called us to be IN to listening to God’s call on each of our lives, IN to sharing the love of Christ with our peers, and IN to making disciples. Ward encouraged us to LEAD while we have strength, TEACH while we have influence, CREATE while we have wisdom, STIR the glowing embers of our peers, and LEAVE a light on for the next generations.

His opening remarks challenged us to begin the conference by asking God to let us each:

  • Be touched by ONE INCREDIBLE MOMENT
  • See ONE WORTH-IT-ALL THING
  • Hear ONE POWERFUL IDEA

My ONE INCREDIBLE MOMENT was from a devotional message given by H.B. London regarding the story of Mary anointing the feet of Jesus. She did what she could, with what she had and where she was. It was an act of worship. H.B. concluded by asking, “what could we do – with what we have – where we are” that can be used for Jesus to give God the glory. This was an inspiration to me to worship God in this way.

My ONE WORTH-IT-ALL THING was the theme of the conference, namely Influencing the Generations by relationships and not by an intergenerational activity or program. One way of doing this was presented in the Start the Conversation workshop by showing ways to create meaningful conversations through new listening skills, knowing how to ask powerful questions, and sharing life together. Powerful questions are those that reveal information for the benefit of the person answering the questions (not the asker). Workshop participants asked one another questions that stimulated clarity, discovery, insight, and action – not correction. We would like to bring this workshop to our church for all to benefit.

My ONE POWERFUL IDEA was that there are phases of retirement to help identify strengths and weaknesses in meeting the needs of our senior’s ministry:

  • (Go-Go) Active Phase – Engaged in life (e.g. volunteer, travel, leisure activities),
  • (Slow-Go) Passive Phase – Energy and health begin to ebb,
  • (No-Go) – Final Phase – Health problems that may restrict mobility, etc.

A chart would be necessary to categorize our J.O.Y. participants to design activities and outreach ministries according to this assessment.

 

Dr. Richard Gentzler, Jr., Director of the United Methodist Church Center on Aging and Older Adult Ministries, spoke on Faithful Aging: From Success to Significance. He stated that faithful aging means to move from being “self-centered to God-centered,” to recognizing that being older is a gift, and that aging is a part of God’s design. We should have a positive attitude about being old since growing older allows you to shift perspective towards God’s way of seeing things. Part of the role of the church is to enhance dignity and worth of every person as a child of God, provide support groups for grief and loneliness, address the multiple losses of aging and help the elderly find fresh meaning and purpose in life.

Dr. Chuck Stecker, President of A Chosen Generation, gave the analogy of “Passing the Baton,” a modern day term based on a relay race where the runner passes the baton to the next runner and the first runner must get out of the race. Dr. Stecker said that our nation and our churches have fallen into the unfortunate situation of losing far too many of our “seniors” who have a significant amount of time and experience to offer to younger generations. This is happening because we have fallen prey to someone wrongfully telling seniors to “pass the baton.” He further states “If you have bought into the lie and passed the baton, take it back! God will tell you when you are done.”

Missy Buchanan, author, columnist, and speaker gave ideas on how the church leaders can help older adults transition through the many changes that come with long life. She said aging is both a state of mind and a state of body, and it should be acknowledged that not everyone can be Betty White!  We should try seeing the world as they see it. Imagine the frustration of impaired vision, poor hearing, diminished strength and arthritis. The church can help older adults find purpose in each life transition by showing them how they can still be involved in ministry. She asks us to be creative in helping older adults see how they can still serve others, no matter what their situation.

Rod Toews, Pastor to Plus Ministry Peninsula Covenant Church and a CASA Network Board member gave a summary of his sabbatical for a survey of adult ministries around the country. In surveyed churches, 38% of the adults were 50+ in age. Eighty-four percent felt that the pastoral leadership demonstrated support for their ministry by the lead pastor teaching seminars, greeting and recognizing 50+ people, attending and staying through events or classes and also by inviting input from 50+ people.

Dr. Laura Carstensen, Professor of Psychology and Director of the Stanford Center on Longevity spoke on “Long Life in the 21st Century.” She said that, “The Center brings together the best minds in academia, business and government to target the most important challenges and solutions for older populations. Projects are designed to provide information to policymakers and business leaders, and bring them together with the research community. Their aim is to develop workable solutions to urgent issues confronting American as our population ages.”

Gleanings for the Hungry, a mercy ministry of Youth With A Mission, located near Fresno, CA, presented an interesting opportunity for outreach and getting involved. Its mission is to help feed the hungry of the world physically and spiritually. They produce dried fruit and dehydrated soup mix and distribute worldwide, using about 3,000 volunteers annually and many “senior” groups to assist them in food production. This mission may work best for younger people’s involvement.

 

There is so much more we experienced at this conference. We hope to be able to bring all we learned to the J.O.Y. ministry as we re-evaluate the needs and phases of our group and recapture a sense of purpose and meaning to our lives.

To quote Ward Tanneberg “Each person has a unique conversation with God. We are the language of God to reflect Jesus. God is not finished with us yet.” 

 

Pat Korieth is a volunteer with The CASA Network, connecting with authors for the Writers Panel and providing editing skills. We’re grateful for her time and her insights.

 

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Small Bites … Adventures in Downsizing

Jan Kinzel

 

Ever been ‘in a pickle’?  I must confess that this article is the only one I have written with the main purpose being to deliver certain recipes. But, I have some fabulous recipes involving pickling!  Those will come later; however I did get into a pickle with a wrong tile selection. We chose a seemingly beautiful tile for part of our master bathroom. When an approximately 2 x 3 feet section was up, what we thought was a random design took on a very unattractive pattern. The sample tile looked beautiful, but when more were put beside it the pattern became Zs that made our eyes go all googlie. And in a small space – it flat out didn’t work! To fix it cost us a bit of money and probably a week longer in the hotel. I would say that was somewhat of a pickle. It got replaced with a much calmer tile and we moved on.

Maybe the best thing about being in a pickle is figuring a way out of it!

 

Purple Eggs & Beets

I have had these every Easter!  They are delicious and beautiful, the whites turn magenta and the yolks stay bright yellow. Cut into halves and placed on an egg platter along with some of the beets and some green parsley sprigs, and they look ready for The Food Network! And did I say they are delicious?

1 ½ dozen hardboiled eggs, medium size works best
4 cans baby or medium whole beets, not pickled
1 cup white vinegar
½ cup granulated sugar

Drain the juice from the beets into a 4 quart saucepan and place on medium heat stirring in sugar and vinegar. (Adjust these to your taste – more sugar for sweeter or more vinegar for a piquant flavor.) After all of the sugar is dissolved, set aside to cool.

Peel the eggs. In a glass canister, place layers of beets and eggs, beginning with beets on the bottom. Pour the beet juice mixture over the beets and eggs.  Cover and refrigerate for at least 2 days. These are ready to serve on the third day and last for over a week covered in the refrigerator.

 

Pickled Shrimp

Friends of ours served this to us about 5 years ago and it is one of the best things I have ever eaten!  My friend says it makes an appearance at every family get-together. I made this for another friend and her husband’s Navy ship retired officers’ reunion. We received requests for this recipe from all over the USA!

Boil 3 quarts of water and 1 tablespoon salt.
Add ½ cup coarsely chopped celery tops with leaves.
Add ¼ cup pickling spices (find these with the spices).
Reduce heat and simmer about 10 minutes to develop the spice flavors.

Drop in 2 pounds raw, cleaned, deveined shrimp, fresh or frozen, leave tails on. Use 20 – 25 per lb. size shrimp or 16 – 20 per lb. depending on how many you want to serve.

Simmer for 3 minutes, stirring occasionally. Immediately drain in colander and remove most of the spices and set aside.

In a glass bowl, mix together the following:

1 ¼ cup cider vinegar
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 small jar capers with juice
2 ½ teaspoons celery seed
1 ½ teaspoons salt
Several dashes of Tobasco sauce  (Adjust this to taste – I like quite a lot.)

Set brine aside

For the next step you’ll need:

2 cups thinly sliced yellow onions
10 – 12 bay leaves

In a glass dish, layer onions, 3 bay leaves and shrimp. Repeat layers. Pour brine over the shrimp. Push shrimp around to make sure they are completely covered. Cover and refrigerate overnight.

To serve: drain off excess brine and serve with toothpicks. Baguette slices make a nice accompaniment.

 

Pickled Cucumbers & Red Onions

This is just a little somethin’ somethin’ to make as a relish on a summer day when the ‘cukes’ are plentiful. I like it with fish as a garnish or on a sandwich.

1 or 2 English cucumbers
1 medium red onion
1 cup apple cider vinegar
½ cup granulated sugar

Thinly slice the cucumbers and onion. It’s best to use a mandolin, but be careful, they are sharp! This also tastes great with just the cucumbers.

Place the sliced vegetables in canning jars – a size of your choosing (no canning required; it’s just a good place to put them). Heat sugar and vinegar over medium heat until sugar is dissolved. Let cool, and pour into the jars with the vegetables. Refrigerate. The ‘pickles’ are ready in just a couple of hours. They store and last for a couple of weeks in the refrigerator.

 

TIP:  Whenever possible, avoid ‘getting into a pickle’!  Or, as in the case of golf, stay out of the rough.

I Corinthians 10:13….God is faithful…and will make a way of escape for you….

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Small Bites … Adventures in Downsizing

Jan Kinzel

 

Cleverness…..…Did you ever see anything so clever that it made you wish you had invented it? I did. Our quest to purchase a dining table that suits the size of a smaller living space led us to a locally owned store that carries only dining tables, chairs, and bar stools. It was there that I saw this clever thing! I think a picture is worth a thousand words, but I will try to describe it.

The function of this thing is to help the customer construct a facsimile of a finished table. It stands about three feet high and measures about two feet square. There are three rotating sections. It looks somewhat like a little carousel. The top rotating section holds twelve table legs of different styles. The middle section has eight table top styles and the bottom section has a selection of eight aprons.

To begin, I chose the farmhouse style of table leg. Rob, the young man who was helping us, slipped the leg out of its holder at the top and into a slot at the bottom of the ‘little carousel’. My husband spun the middle section to select the table top he thought looked the best; then together, including Rob, we selected the apron. When all three sections were spun to the choices we wanted – voila! – there was a model of our table! I tell you, it was the coolest thing! We ordered our ‘custom-made’ table in the perfect size for our condo and in a great creamy white finish sanded here and there so some wood shows through the paint. We will see it in 4 to 6 weeks.

At the end of that day I found myself still marveling at the cleverness of that thing and thinking whoever invented it must feel pretty smug. I wished it had been me.

 

Walk-about Food

Last year a friend and I worked together on an event for 150 people.  We thought and thought about what to serve and hit on this (dare I say?) clever idea. It was very well received so I’m just going to put it out there for you along with some variations. We called ours ‘Walk-about Salads’.  We had two distinct types: Italian & Thai.

The idea is to serve layered combinations of classic ingredients in individual clear containers. For the large group, we used plastic, short, wide-rimmed, 9 ounce glasses from the party store. To dress it up, or for smaller groups, martini glasses are perfect. Keep the elements bite-sized so it is easy to eat – no knife needed. For added pizzazz, moisten the rim and dip in an appropriate seasoning – such as a mixture of coarse salt and celery seed for a tomato salad or raw sugar for desserts. I like to use heavy-weight plastic spoons or forks of colors that enhance the dish. Here, then, are a few of the ideas.

 

Walk-about Toy Box Tomato Salad

Fill glass a third of the way with large cherry tomatoes cut in half.  Next place cubed feta cheese and top with a chiffonaude of fresh basil leaves. To make the chiffonaude, remove the leaves from the stem and stack, then roll them up like a cigar and slice across the short end with a sharp knife.  In a canning jar, place the same amounts of balsamic vinegar and extra-virgin olive oil. Add a tablespoon of sugar and 4 cloves of garlic, minced, a pinch of salt and a grind or 2 of black pepper. Place the top and turn the ring tightly to seal the jar. Shake to emulsify the dressing. Drizzle a tablespoon or two over the salad. Serve with a bright green plastic fork.

 

Marie’s Lettuce Wrap Walk-about Thai Salad

Fill the glass to 1/3 with shredded iceberg lettuce. Spoon meat mixture in next (see recipe below). Next comes scallions, cut finely on the diagonal, using white and green parts. Top with coarsely chopped cashew nuts, a lime wedge and a few cilantro leaves. Garnish with a little Asian paper umbrella and add a black plastic fork.

Meat Mixture:  In a skillet, lightly brown 1½ lbs. ground turkey in 1 tablespoon olive oil.  Add 1 diced small yellow onion and cook until onion is soft. Add 2 teaspoons salt, ½ teaspoon ground black pepper, 2 tablespoons each of freshly minced garlic and ginger. If desired, add a little red chili paste for heat. Cook 3 minutes longer. Stir in 1/3 cup Yoshida’s marinade and 3 tablespoons rice wine vinegar. Remove from heat and mix in ½ each of a red and a green bell pepper, finely chopped. Let cool. Layer in glasses as directed.


Walk-about Shrimp & Avocado Salad

Place medium-sized peeled, deveined, tails on shrimp on a baking sheet in single layer. Drizzle with olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Roast at 4000for 10 to 12 minutes. Remove from oven and let cool. Layer in glass with 4 shrimp on the bottom, ½ an avocado in the middle, and top with several ruby red grapefruit sections. Tuck a butter lettuce leaf on one side of the salad and partly under the shrimp. Have the ruffle edge of the lettuce stick up a little from the glass rim. Drizzle with 1 or 2tablespoons of your favorite raspberry dressing. Top with a shrimp and a parsley sprig. Use a bright red plastic fork to set off color of the shrimp.

 

There’s so much more you can do: Walk-about Caprese Salad; Walk-about Caesar Salad; Walk-about Tira Misu; Walk-about Strawberry Short Cake; Walk-about Vanilla Wafer Banana Pudding; Walk-about Cherry Pie; Walk-about S’mores; Walk-about English Trifle.

These are just a few possibilities. I heard of one fancy party where mashed potatoes with gravy was served in martini glasses and in the September 2010 Food Network magazine, it showed layers of pulled pork with barbeque sauce and mashed potatoes topped off with a cherry tomato!

 

TIP:  Life is just a bowl of cherries!

Psalm 104:14 …bring forth food from the earth…

Read the whole chapter!

 

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Small Bites … Adventures in Downsizing

Jan Kinzel

 

It was the best of times; it was the worst of times… This opening sentence of “A Tale of Two Cities” by Charles Dickens has become the most famous paradoxical statement of all time. Remember, a paradox is a literary tool that causes the reader to say, “Wait a minute. How can that be?!”

In this volatile housing market, it was the best time to sell our house and downsize. It’s a buyers’ market; it’s a sellers’ market. How can that be? It’s true that housing prices are down and that profit on the sale won’t be as much as hoped, but it also means a lower price on the other end. The interest rates are at an historic low. The builders are anxious to have their inventory reduced and occupied so they offer many incentives to ‘sweeten the deal’ to the buyer. Resale homes are priced to sell – and if they aren’t they remain on the market and the price eventually gets lowered to true market value. All of these things work in the buyer’s favor and you get lots more for the money than two years ago. It’s a good time for the seller because lots of folks are out looking for a traditional home to purchase. This really benefits us ‘downsizers’!

 

Looking at the Old Testament story of Joseph, one wonders how this could be good, but Joseph’s gracious response to his brothers, who left him for dead in a ditch, is a wonderful example of God’s care for us and Joseph’s great character.  Joseph told his brothers, “You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.”

 

Sweet and Sour (How can that be?) Meatballs

This is a fabulous dish to serve at the holidays. It fits well into a buffet or can be used as an appetizer. Whichever way you choose to use it, the aroma makes mouths water! I am also passing along a tip I saw on the Giada DeLaurentiis cooking show.

Turkey Meatballs

Special equipment – an electric fondue pot or a small crock-pot, a couple of 24 tin mini-muffin pans and a mini-ice cream scoop

2 ½ pounds ground turkey
1 pound Jimmy Dean Sage Sausage
1 small yellow onion, diced very small
¾ cup Italian seasoned Panko bread crumbs
½ cup heated evaporated milk
½ cup Eggbeaters
1 tablespoon salt
1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper

Crumble the meats together with your fingers into a large bowl. Moisten the breadcrumbs with the warm milk and along with all other ingredients mix into the meat. Do this with your fingers being careful not to over-mix as that will cause the meat to be mushy. There will be plenty of seasoning from the sage sausage and the Italian flavored breadcrumbs.

OR: Use your favorite meatball or meatloaf recipe.

Giada’s tip: Spray mini-muffin pans with a vegetable spray such as Pam.  With the mini-ice cream scoop, place 1 ball in each muffin tin. (Don’t over-fill the ice cream scoop as these are to be party size.) This makes evenly sized meatballs and thus they cook evenly. Bake in a preheated oven at 4000 until well browned and cooked through.

OR: Skip all of that and purchase tasty frozen meatballs from Trader Joe’s.

 


Sweet and Sour Sauce

Combine and heat for 2 minutes in microwave:

12 oz. jar of Heinz chili sauce
18 oz. jar of apricot-pineapple preserves

Cut the following into 1 inch pieces:

1 red bell pepper
1 green bell pepper
1 ½ cup fresh pineapple chunks
1 cup sweet onion, such as Vidalia or Maui (pull layers apart)

Layer the meatballs with the peppers, pineapple chunks and onion in the fondue pot or crock-pot. Pour heated sweet and sour sauce over the mixture making sure it gets all the way to the bottom so everything is coated. Keep at a simmer. To serve, have a supply of cocktail napkins and long skewers nearby. This recipe makes 60 meatballs.

 

TIP:  When one door closes many more plus a few windows open.

Malachi 3:10 …and I will open the windows of Heaven and pour out for you such blessings..

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Small Bites … Adventures in Downsizing

family graffitiJan Kinzel

 

Yes!  We bought cans of spray paint for our five grandchildren! There is a perfectly reasonable explanation for this aberrant behavior of perfectly dignified, law-biding, gray-haired grandparents.

The condominium we purchased, and soon will be moving into, had no model for us to sit in and visualize how we might plan our new living space. The model of ours is the sales office and is not configured the same as ours. The wonderful saleswomen guided us to Linda, a woman who has the same style of unit that we will have, and made arrangements for us to meet her. She invited us to come to her home to see the layout and take measurements and the like. Of course, we had the blueprints, but seeing the build-out was invaluable to us. Linda has become a great friend. We decided to begin our friendship early. We go to lunch and movies and sometimes I walk Sonny, her dog, with her.

One day when I was at Linda’s, she showed me some pictures of graffiti on concrete. And then she shared a very fun activity that she and her grandchildren had done. Before any of the decorative flooring was installed, she had her grandchildren spray messages on the slab of her home. I loved the idea and asked permission from Linda and the builder to do the same in our unit. When all of our family were together a month or so ago, we went to Wal-Mart, purchased the paint with trigger tops and went to our condo which was at the perfect stage to do this. My husband sprayed several large frames on the floors throughout the rooms – this gave the kids some boundaries. They donned hard hats, received the cans of paint and went for it!  We all had so much fun. My husband took pictures of their artwork. Once the floors are installed the artwork will no longer be visible, but as we walk through the rooms we can imagine the pictures under our feet and revisit the fond memories of that day.

 

STAINED GLASS DESSERT

This dessert/salad looks like a work of art! It’s a holiday favorite for our family, we use it as a salad with turkey dinner.

Jell-o Squares

1 large pkg. each – lime, cherry, orange Jell-o
1½ cups boiling water for each package

Dissolve each Jell-o in separate containers keeping colors separate.  Glass pie plates or square disposable plastic containers with seals work well.  Lightly spray containers with Pam before adding Jell-o.  This helps with removal and keeps the edges neat.  Chill overnight.

 

Cream Mixture

1 cup pineapple juice
1 large package of lemon Jell-o

In a saucepan, heat lemon Jell-o in pineapple juice until completely dissolved. Remove from heat and add 12 ice cubes. Stir until mixture is syrupy and chilled. Remove any un-melted ice.

Whip 1 pint of heavy cream and add ¼ cup sugar. Whip until peaks hold. Fold whipped cream mixture into pineapple mixture, being careful not to deflate the whipped cream.

Cut the colored firm Jell-o into 1 inch cubes.  Carefully fold the colored cubes into the whipped cream mixture.

 

Crust

24 crushed graham crackers (do this in a food processor, or purchase the crumbs in a box)
¼ cup granulated sugar
1 stick butter, melted

Combine graham cracker crumbs and sugar then stir in melted butter, coating all of the crumb mixture. Line a spring form pan or an English trifle bowl with 2/3 of the crust mixture. Bring the sides of the crust up only about an inch or so.  This way the colors of the Jell-o squares will show. I like to use the clear trifle bowl because it shows off the colors but is much less messy to serve. Turn the cream & Jell-o onto the crust. Sprinkle remaining crumbs over the top. Cover with plastic wrap and chill for 6 – 12 hours.

 

Tip:  Sometimes you have to think ‘inside the box’.

John 8:8 ……Jesus stooped down and wrote on the ground…….

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 Small Bites… Adventures in Downsizing

breakfast Jan Kinzel

Oh, what a beautiful morning…..sitting by the serene sun-drenched hotel pool, enjoying a cool and very gentle breeze. The birds take their perches on the pitches of the Spanish-tiled roofs telegraphing to each other their plans for the day. It’s the first day of August and we have a move-in date of September 12!  Six more weeks to moving time and six more weeks of biding my time at the hotel. It’s vibrant here. The last couple of weeks the hotel has been filled with traveling teams of young people playing in various sports tournaments. The parents and coaches come along, too, making it a fun and interesting mix. Many different areas of the USA are represented, and represented well. The kids are pleasant, cheerful and excited about what each day will bring. Joeux d’ vie!

Morning is aging and soon they will stir, go to breakfast the hotel provides, and break the serenity I have been enjoying while I lounge at the pool. Now the space will be filled with exuberance, texting, giggling, rough-housing and the like. Am I disturbed by all of this? No! I feel privileged to be here among it all, and for a few moments, remember the days when my children were in their growing-up years! It’s time for me to get moving anyway to get ready for the day. We have a wedding to attend and other activities. But it’s great to take the time to enjoy the early moments of a beautiful morning in the sunshine with the birds chirping away on the rooftops.

Breakfast!  A great way to greet a new day and express love to family and friends!

 

The Menu: 
Baked Eggs with Fresh Herbs and Cream
Croutons
Little Smokie Links
Broiled Grapefruit
Toasted English Muffins with Sliced Strawberries
Freshly Squeezed Orange juice
Steaming Coffee

 

Baked Eggs with Fresh Herbs and Cream

Use two extra large eggs per person. With vegetable spray, coat a ramekin for each person. Place a small pat of butter in each dish and carefully add two eggs per dish. Season the eggs with sea salt and freshly ground black pepper. Sprinkle a mix of finely chopped fresh herbs on and around the eggs. I like to use a little sage, thyme and basil. Add a teaspoon of crème sherry wine and 1/3 cup of half and half cream.  Bake in a 3750 oven until whites are set and yolks are cooked to desired doneness. Remove from the oven, garnish with a couple of basil or sage leaves. Place two of the croutons in one side to finish the presentation.

 

Croutons

Slice a sour dough French baguette on the diagonal making thin large pieces. Lightly butter the slices and toast them on a baking sheet until very crisp. Rub a clove of garlic over the toasted bread.

 

Little Smokies

Place Hillshire Lil’ Smokies on a baking sheet lined with release aluminum foil. Bake at 4000 until they are lightly browned. Transfer to a bowl and serve family style.

 

Broiled Grapefruit

Use tart grapefruits and cut into halves. To make them easy to eat, cut between the membranes and around the rim loosening the sections. Sprinkle with ½ teaspoon of brown sugar and place a maraschino cherry with a stem in the center of each grapefruit.  Place under the broiler until the sugar bubbles and begins to caramelize. Serve each in a bowl.

 

Toasted English Muffins with Sliced Strawberries

Toast English muffin halves in a toaster or on a baking sheet in the oven. After toasting, spread with butter or your favorite spread.  Sprinkle the buttered side with ½ teaspoon of granulated sugar. Top each one with sliced strawberries. Place on a platter and serve family style.

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Freshly Squeezed Orange Juice

Serve the juice in a special way of some sort.  I like to serve it in a pitcher with matching juice glasses that are hand painted in a rooster motif. (I also use rooster and chicken printed paper napkins and color coordinate the rest of the table.) I tell my grandchildren that we are “having breakfast with the chickens!” Another serving suggestion is to pre-pour the juice in flutes or martini glasses and garnish with a thin orange slice and sprig of mint.

 

Steaming coffee in French press pots is a fun touch!

 

Tip: Look for the rare soulful opportunities and appreciate the gift.
This is the day the Lord has made…be glad… Psalm 118:24.

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 . . . “There’s Work to be Done!”

 by Wes Wick

 

A good friend told me recently he was trying to introduce a stronger serving emphasis among seniors at his church, but his survey results were not encouraging.

Unfortunately, only four percent of those who responded showed an interest in mentoring young people, serving food to the homeless, or participating in other forms of serving, outreach, and evangelism. We didn’t see the full survey and haven’t yet had a Family Feud with this active group of seniors, but we’ve encountered similar stories as we’ve traveled from church to church.

We know there were many mature Christians among those being surveyed, still with so much to offer, but many older adult groups appear to be running on fumes when it comes to serving.

So what causes these older classics from the 30’s and 40’s to pull out of the serving lane? Their survey pencils seem to be magnetically pulled to sightseeing checkboxes. And reverse magnetic fields appear to push their pencils away from serving opportunities.

Besides obvious deterrents of physical decline, day-to-day uncertainties, and influences of our consumer-oriented culture, could there be other reasons for responses skewed so heavily toward entertainment? These adults have the stamina to get on tour buses and traipse through local museums, but their engines are prone to stall when serving shows up on their destination map.

 

Consider these three contributing factors if your older adults appear to be running out of GAS at the service station:

Generational Isolation.  We find great solace in hanging out with our peers, but when we stay inside a comfort zone too long, “senior adult ministries” can easily morph into an older adult social club. When asked what we’d like to do in the context of a social club, it’s natural to come up with peer-insulated, self-serving responses—high in pleasure and low in pain.

We may assume that God is pleased that we’re still getting out of our homes and hanging out with Christian friends. But does He really expect us to venture outside our cozy generational bubble? Trouble is, many of us are in need of some high octane fuel, but we’re only drawing from the pump of our lower octane peers.

We need energetic young people in our lives, and they need us. Our serving options multiply when we partner with younger people who have the spark to get us moving forward on all cylinders, away from complacency. Just as cars are more than a collection of multiple parts, members of the Body of Christ are not designed to operate in generational isolation. Each part contributes to the function of the whole, and the ride is so much better when the whole brings out the best of each individual part.

Ageism.  It’s no secret. Here in America, we live in a youth-oriented culture. It is what it is. 

We may have been told that our time of impact expired or that we now represent the Church of Yesteryear. Messages of ageism, usually discounting a person’s value based on advancing age, are painful and wrong—they need to be rejected, both outside and inside the Church.

It’s tempting to play the role of victim, becoming bitter and sulking in self-pity. But if we internalize these negative messages, we can become more timid, discouraged, and angry. Ageism can erode confidence, passion, and opportunity, causing us to pull back from serving. This, in turn, reinforces the obsolescent labeling of older adults—a vicious cycle.

Preferring one generation over another is sort of like picking your favorite tire on a car. C’mon—we need them all, fully inflated! Remember, we serve a God who is passionate about every generation! And all living followers of Christ make up the Church of today.

Spiritual retirement.  Life is too short to get stuck in the victim lane, so some of us gladly succumb to the notion that our later years are express lanes exiting to leisure and entertainment.

Sure we need some rest, but we’re not designed for a permanent pit stop until our race is over! The padded seats of the grandstand beckon, and we surmise now is our time to just sit back and watch other racers circle the track. It’s sure more fun than whining and complaining!

Not grasping our changing but still influential roles as older adults, we can lose the drive to stay fully engaged in our churches. When it comes to making a real difference in others’ lives, many older adults shift into idle gear. Allowing vocational retirement to propel us into spiritual retirement, we climb all too willingly into the grandstand, fully investing ourselves in the role of spectator. Some see the grandstand as a pre-taste of heaven, finally receiving the good things promised, now with minimal responsibility or accountability.

“This is the life! It’s what we’ve worked so hard forall these years. So please don’t think we’ve retired to serve more. This is our time to kick back and enjoy. We’ve earned it.”

One mistake here is associating joy only with kicking back. Kickback joy can be real, is often well deserved, but is always temporary. Give back joy found in obeying God and serving others is both real and eternal.

“If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it.” Jesus in Mark 8:35 (NLT)

Another mistake is trying to convince older adults that they are not entitled. Good luck!  It’s a losing battle. We’re so quick to criticize entitlement attitudes in others but remain intensely protective of our own entitlements.

Jesus, the rich young ruler, and the Apostle Paul were all entitled. Becoming a servant is really a test of our willingness to lay down our earthly entitlements to please and obey our Heavenly Father.

 

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Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:2-3 (NIV)

When I Survey, the Wondrous Cross Usually Gets Bumped

In the first verse of Hebrews 12 we’re reminded that we have a great grandstand or cloud of witnesses surrounding us as we run the race with perseverance.

The grandstand of witnesses named in the preceding chapter had a few things in common. They all walked in faith, made culturally unpopular choices, and didn’t enter the grandstand until they departed from life on earth. The grandstand isn’t a viable option for living heroes of faith. Even as our age advances, God may call us away from what’s easy, routine and comfortable.

By definition, unpopular choices requiring faith will not be popular in most group activity preference surveys. We need to individually and collectively hear God’s voice, deny ourselves, pick up our cross and follow Him (Mark 8:34). Group preference surveys may have some value, but they don’t typically lead us to the cross!

At the core, it’s about walking in faith to the very end, being willing to do whatever God is asking of us. He may want us to slow down and visit a museum with friends, perhaps share Christ with a friend we’ve invited to accompany us on the museum tour. At times He calls us to step up and offer a helping hand. Sometimes He wants our wisdom to touch a young couple needing direction. At other times He may call us to step away from the crowd to hear His voice, simply to be content in His presence. And often He wants us to choose seemingly harder, less popular, and less predictable paths.

The 18th century German writer, Goethe, penned this, “The dangers of life are infinite, and among them is safety.”

Those who lived their lives based on popular personal preferences, with attitudes of earthly entitlement and early spiritual retirement, did not qualify for the Hebrews 11 Hall of Fame.

In chapter 11:13-14 (NIV), the writer of Hebrews says, “All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth. People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own [heaven].”

 

So, if you’ve administered a survey and learned where all your adults want to play, rejoice in your job security! You have a big job ahead, helping this playful bunch discover the joy of full-throttle serving and obedience.

As you lead your group further down the serving track, we encourage you to move the discussion beyond where they want to go to where God would have them serve. No matter what surveys say, stay close to your calling as a leader with this Scriptural mandate:

“to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ…From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” Ephesians 4:12, 13, 16 (NIV)

 

Wes and Judy Wick are co-founders of YES! Young Enough to Serve, an organization that celebrates the joy of extended fruitfulness. YES! helps harness the gifts of longevity, health, wisdom and life experience of adults in life’s later seasons. Learn more at www.yestoserve.org.

 

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Like a Physical Workout, Spiritual Maturity Requires Day-by-day Effort

strengthening by Jodi Detrick


What is it about summer that makes a somewhat sedentary person want to dust off the treadmill, dig the wrinkled workout garb from the bottom of the drawer and opt for running shoes over house slippers? Maybe the extra daylight hours create a burst of energy related to elevated serotonin levels. Or just maybe (more likely for some of us) it’s the probability that all that extra light makes it easier for people to see the additional pounds we added during the winter months. Sigh.

Here’s something I’ve learned in the past couple of years: After 50, pounds don’t just creep up on you. That implies they are sneaky in their approach. Oh no! After 50 they just saunter in, look you in the eye and say, “I’m here to stay — you got a problem with that?”

I do have a problem with that, actually. That’s why about three years ago, my husband and I took the plunge and invested in one of those big combination treadmill-elliptical machines, the kind that’s supposed to burn twice the calories in half the time. To be honest, the biggest workout I got during that first year of ownership came from lugging the huge box up the stairs and getting it set up. After the first week, it was easy to think of it as just an odd piece of furniture, like something a graffiti-artist-turned-interior-designer might have come up with.

I would virtually ignore the beast throughout the long winters and drizzly, gray springs. Then, when the weatherman predicted days of increasing sunshine, I’d attack it like crazy, praying for that “twice the calories in half the time” thing to kick in.

But this past year, with a few notable lapses, I’ve actually managed to use my treadmill several times a week. Did I mention I did that all year long? (I’m still wondering what got into me!)

As this summer approached, there was no mad dash to do overtime on the treadmill. While I’m still no candidate for the cover of a fitness magazine, I’m a few pounds lighter and happier with the fit of my clothing (even the dreaded summer version). But the main benefit is feeling stronger, healthier and more energetic.

Here’s the deal: You just can’t fit a year’s worth of fitness into two weeks. Workouts work best over the long haul.

There’s an interesting verse in the Bible that talks about a different kind of “work out.” Philippians 2:12 tells us to “work out our own salvation with reverence and awe.” The next verse says that God works in us to give us both the desire and the ability to do what honors Him. So, we work out what God’s grace has worked in. For a Christ follower like me, growing in faith is a day-by-day process of cooperating with how God is at work in my life.

I sometimes wish I could bestow instant spiritual maturity upon myself and others — twice the patience, kindness, peace, joy, holiness and love in half the time.

But like exercise, spiritual maturity requires consistent effort. As I practice what Christians through the centuries have called the Spiritual Disciplines — prayer, reading and meditating on Scripture, admitting my failures, listening for God’s voice in my heart, being honest and accountable with others, and worshipping Him — over time, there will be change. Endurance for life’s struggles will build. The muscle required to love my neighbor, or even an enemy, will grow stronger. What God has been working inside will be worked out in the way I live.

When that happens, I won’t need to fear what the light of day might show to others, since they’ll see someone who’s beginning to look a little more like Jesus. Now that’s a worthwhile workout!

Jodi Detrick serves the Northwest Ministry Network (Assemblies of God) as Women’s Ministries Director. She is also a public speaker, an author and a Life Coach. 

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Small Bites…Adventures in Downsizing

Jan Kinzel

Over the years, I have observed that everything is composed of elements.  A sculpture, a building, a painting, an outfit to wear, a meal – all of them have necessary elements that complete the undertaking.  And, each finished project is held together by a theme.  Years ago, I attended a show in San Francisco called “Beach Blanket Babylon.”  The playbill had a list of thirty or so musical numbers.  I looked at the first and the last, and wondered how they related to each other—and to all the others in between.  The show began and Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz stepped on stage to announce that she was looking for a “rich doctor.”  Then I understood that she was the thread that held all the musical numbers together.

A strand of pearls is held together by the silk thread on which they are strung, but snip the thread and the pearls go all over the place. As my husband and I are choosing the ‘pearls’ that comprise the décor of our new condo, we are stringing them on the silk thread of Rustic Tuscan Elegance, a décor style that compliments the architecture and landscape of the whole complex. Warm and vibrant Tuscan gold wall color set off by creamy white ceilings, crown moldings and window trim with plantation shutters create a great backdrop for the other elements. Nutmeg stain on cherry wood gives a cheery feel to the cabinetry.  Anchoring the main living areas with dark plank hardwood flooring brings just a touch of formality to the rustic style.  Soft gold sculptured carpets in the two bedrooms add some softness and a Persian area rug in the living room highlights the furniture that sits on it.  The accent colors are cinnabar red and creamy white.

Because texture is a very important design component, both hard surfaces and soft textiles are needed.  Natural stone is added in various places. One whole wall in the living room has calm, creamy white ledge stone surrounding the fireplace.  Granite, with big swirls for the counters, Travertine tiles, and polished marble complete the stone element.  For the soft textures we have chosen a ‘mushroomy’ white velvet couch and cinnabar Italian leather chairs for the living room.

Decorating a small space for comfy living takes lots of research and planning! With downsizing, keeping every element to scale influences all other considerations. Every inch counts.

 

Deconstructed as a food term means the elements of the dish stay separated. Cobb Salad is an iconic example. Deconstructed – good! Decomposed – not so good.

 

DECONSTRUCTED CHOPPED SALAD

4 cups gently packed baby arugula washed and dried

2 cups tomatoes cored and seeded, diced to ½ inch

1 medium English cucumber seeded, diced to ½ inch

1 cup Kalamata olives pitted and quartered

8 ounces firm feta diced to ½ inch

3 cups garlic croutons

Garlic croutons

3 cups sturdy bread (such as ciabatta), cut into ½ inch cubes

1/3 cup garlic flavored extra virgin olive oil

1 teaspoon fined grated lemon zest

Toss bread in olive oil

Bake in 375 degree oven on cookie sheet for 12 minutes until golden. Return them to large bowl toss with zest and salt and pepper to taste.

 

 

Dressing

¾ cup good extra virgin olive oil

½ cup lemon juice

2 tablespoons finely chopped shallots

1 teaspoon Dijon mustard

1 teaspoon chopped oregano

½  – 1 teaspoon anchovy paste

Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper

Mix in a bowl and let stand for at least 10 minutes for flavors to blend.

Lay arugula on a large platter and artfully arrange, in strips, all the chopped ingredients atop the arugula, sprinkle the croutons. Whisk the dressing together and drizzle lightly over the entire salad. Allow guests to spoon elements of the salad on their plates and drizzle some dressing.

DECONSTRUCTED PESTO PASTA

Large pot with 4 – 6 quarts water and 1 tablespoon salt

6 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil

8 cloves garlic, very thinly sliced

Freshly ground black pepper

1 lb. dried corkscrew pasta

½ cup toasted pine nuts

4 oz. coarsely grated Pecorino Romano cheese

2 cups packed fresh basil leaves cut into ¼ inch-wide strips

(Keeping the pesto ingredients intact is the reason this dish is considered deconstructed.)

Bring water to a boil.  In a large skillet, gently heat the olive oil and slices of garlic over low heat stirring frequently, until the garlic starts to turn golden. Remove from heat and stir in about ¾ teaspoon kosher salt and ¼ teaspoon pepper. Cook the pasta until al dente, reserving ½ cup of the pasta water, drain the rest from the pasta. Pour the garlic and olive oil over the hot pasta and toss. Deglaze the skillet with the reserved pasta water and add that to pasta and toss well. Add the pine nuts and cheese to pasta and toss again until thoroughly mixed. Transfer to a serving bowl. Just before serving, toss in the basil. Pass extra cheese with a grater for those who want more.

 

 

Tip: The theme (thread) and elements (pearls) principle can be applied to many life situations.

 

Genesis 1:1-31 & 2:1-4 … God designed everything! He is in each element.

                   Blessings from JAN KINZEL

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