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Sometimes it takes a flood to drive a point home.

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My heart has no desire to stay, where doubts arise and fears dismay.
Though some may dwell where these abound, my prayer, my aim, is higher ground.

Lord, lift me up and let me stand, by faith on Heaven’s table land.
A higher plain than I have found: Lord, plant my feet on higher ground.

 - from Higher Ground, by Hymn Writer Johnson Oatman, Jr.

 

El Niño packed a punch and flooded our home office twice last year, once in October and again in January.

Flood me once, shame on El Niño; flood me twice, shame on me.

Obviously, the right solution did not sink in the first time around.  It was my heart that sank as a hundred gallons of rainwater again saturated our floor and carpet. “Where did I go wrong this time?” I wondered.

Living in a redwood forest at the base of the Santa Cruz Mountains has both overwhelming challenges and beauty, much like the later seasons of life. And, as much as I like being right, I learned the hard way that my approach to our flooding problem was all wet!

Count it all joy! Through the storm, the Lord showered me with fresh perspective on how easy it is to approach problems too narrowly and neglect solutions at a higher plain.

 

Taking the Battle Upstream

. . . I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations. . .    Deuteronomy 5:9 (NKJV)

When plagued with outside water in our downstairs office several years ago, I installed a small, interior French drain and raised the floor in half the room to resolve the occasional trickle that made its way into the lower story of our home. This was a costly, low level approach, but took care of the problem where it surfaced inside. Or so I thought.

Returning home to a flood in October, I discovered a downspout on the uphill side of our home was clogged. After pulling up our carpet and living in mild chaos for a week, I cleared the gutter, downspout and accompanying drain. Addressing the problem at a second level gave me a short-lived sense of overconfidence in my flood management skills.

When torrential downpours caused more flooding in January, wisdom slowly and uncharacteristically prevailed. I called a friend. He in turn called a couple more friends, and we had a party in the rain. As we know from Proverbs, there is victory in an abundance of counselors (and workers!).

The interior French drain was not draining water fast enough. It appeared this lowest and smallest drain had failed Checking outside we saw that the gutter and downspouts were draining properly. This next-to-last generation of flood defense was working just fine. We then noticed rainwater from the hillside cascading over a retaining wall, never reaching the drain pipe at its base. Attacking this grandfather-level of flood prevention, we began digging extra trenches at the bottom of the hillside.

While watching water continuing to slosh unabated down our slope, I vaguely recalled seeing a catch basin up the hill about twenty yards away.  We trekked uphill and saw a considerable volume of water streaming into the catch basin and down a ten-inch pipe. This single basin and large pipe were diverting more water than all the lower drains combined! Yet, because of years of neglect, the basin was failing to capture and re-direct about a third of the water coming its way. It took only five minutes of shoveling around this first line of defense to help the catch basin do its full job. Once this problem was corrected, we were able to stop digging trenches at the base of the hill. And then, in spite of a continuing downpour, the water flowing into the interior French drain slowed to a faint trickle.

Because the first line of defense was working properly, we were able to see that the final line of defense was also working.  It hadn’t failed as we originally surmised.

 

What did I take away from this experience besides a soggy carpet, sore back and bruised ego?

  1. I learned my direct and even bi-level approaches were inadequate.
  2. I wrongfully assumed that the last line of flooding defense had completely failed.
  3. My expensive, relatively high tech solution at the spot where the problem was most visible had some value. But when things got real stormy, it alone was not the bridge over troubled waters.
  4. While each level of flooding defense was critical, devoting attention to the first line of defense some distance away proved to be the least costly and most effective solution. Put in place by the designer of our home, it was a critical part of the solution I had neglected for years.

 

Amaziah the Righteous, Half-Hearted King

The great grandpa, Catch Basin, in our rainforest adventure reminded my wife and me of this Old Testament king:

 Amaziah (King of Judah) did what was right in the eyes of the Lord, but not wholeheartedly.  Chronicles 25:2 (NIV)

 

Much like the catch basin uphill and away from our home, many great grandparents are doing what’s right, but not wholeheartedly. Holding back from loving God with all their heart, soul, mind and strength, their shallow devotion may be spawning disaster for those downstream.

One of the most strategic steps we can take as church leaders is helping to direct these great grandparents and grandparents in the faith toward wholehearted devotion.

Every line of defense is vital in shielding our youngest generations from the floodgates of sin. Churches tend to invest heavily at the youngest levels and often ignore or pacify the upper end of the age spectrum.

How often we fail to see the connection between half-hearted, later-life devotion and the problems of young people immersed in sin and absent from church life!

Most seasoned Christians seem to be living right. They certainly don’t activate the flood sirens. Because of their advancing age we give them a pass on spiritual half-heartedness, ignoring the negative trickle-down effect on younger generations. The oldest among us may not need the same kind of spiritual attention as the youngest, but their strategic potential for disciple-making, modeling, resourcing and inspiration cannot be overlooked.

Many older adults within our churches suffer from years of neglect and presumption, much like how I treated our forgotten catch basin up the hill. I hadn’t given that basin a single drop of attention since moving into our home twelve years ago. It seemed far removed and irrelevant. I just assumed it was doing what it was supposed to do!

Foolishly, the first line of defense was the last solution I considered.

The Church faces a flood of challenges with consequences far more devastating than damaged floor covering. Let’s make sure we’re giving attention to every generation’s line of defense.

Wholeheartedly.

 

Wes Wick along with his wife, Judy, are co-founders of YES! Young Enough to Serve, an organization that celebrates the joy of extended fruitfulness. YES! helps harness the gifts of longevity, health, wisdom and life experience of adults in life’s later seasons. Learn more at www.yestoserve.org. Wes recently joined The CASA Network Board of Directors. 

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Wes Wick is co-founder of YES! Young Enough to Serve www.yestoserve.orgYES! helps to energize the hearts of adults toward serving in life’s second half, extending Christ’s love beyond generational and congregational borders. Wes and Judy have a strong desire see young leaders engage with them in the task of tapping the untargeted and too often shelved potential of older adults.

Before Wes and Judy launched YES! in 2008, Wes served extensively in Christian higher education administration, most recently as Vice President for Advancement at Bethany University. He holds a masters degree in Social Science from Azusa Pacific University and a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration and Economics from Seattle Pacific University.

Wes and Judy, who reside in Scotts Valley CA, are empty nesters and proud parents of four adult children.

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 . . . “There’s Work to be Done!”

 by Wes Wick

 

A good friend told me recently he was trying to introduce a stronger serving emphasis among seniors at his church, but his survey results were not encouraging.

Unfortunately, only four percent of those who responded showed an interest in mentoring young people, serving food to the homeless, or participating in other forms of serving, outreach, and evangelism. We didn’t see the full survey and haven’t yet had a Family Feud with this active group of seniors, but we’ve encountered similar stories as we’ve traveled from church to church.

We know there were many mature Christians among those being surveyed, still with so much to offer, but many older adult groups appear to be running on fumes when it comes to serving.

So what causes these older classics from the 30’s and 40’s to pull out of the serving lane? Their survey pencils seem to be magnetically pulled to sightseeing checkboxes. And reverse magnetic fields appear to push their pencils away from serving opportunities.

Besides obvious deterrents of physical decline, day-to-day uncertainties, and influences of our consumer-oriented culture, could there be other reasons for responses skewed so heavily toward entertainment? These adults have the stamina to get on tour buses and traipse through local museums, but their engines are prone to stall when serving shows up on their destination map.

 

Consider these three contributing factors if your older adults appear to be running out of GAS at the service station:

Generational Isolation.  We find great solace in hanging out with our peers, but when we stay inside a comfort zone too long, “senior adult ministries” can easily morph into an older adult social club. When asked what we’d like to do in the context of a social club, it’s natural to come up with peer-insulated, self-serving responses—high in pleasure and low in pain.

We may assume that God is pleased that we’re still getting out of our homes and hanging out with Christian friends. But does He really expect us to venture outside our cozy generational bubble? Trouble is, many of us are in need of some high octane fuel, but we’re only drawing from the pump of our lower octane peers.

We need energetic young people in our lives, and they need us. Our serving options multiply when we partner with younger people who have the spark to get us moving forward on all cylinders, away from complacency. Just as cars are more than a collection of multiple parts, members of the Body of Christ are not designed to operate in generational isolation. Each part contributes to the function of the whole, and the ride is so much better when the whole brings out the best of each individual part.

Ageism.  It’s no secret. Here in America, we live in a youth-oriented culture. It is what it is. 

We may have been told that our time of impact expired or that we now represent the Church of Yesteryear. Messages of ageism, usually discounting a person’s value based on advancing age, are painful and wrong—they need to be rejected, both outside and inside the Church.

It’s tempting to play the role of victim, becoming bitter and sulking in self-pity. But if we internalize these negative messages, we can become more timid, discouraged, and angry. Ageism can erode confidence, passion, and opportunity, causing us to pull back from serving. This, in turn, reinforces the obsolescent labeling of older adults—a vicious cycle.

Preferring one generation over another is sort of like picking your favorite tire on a car. C’mon—we need them all, fully inflated! Remember, we serve a God who is passionate about every generation! And all living followers of Christ make up the Church of today.

Spiritual retirement.  Life is too short to get stuck in the victim lane, so some of us gladly succumb to the notion that our later years are express lanes exiting to leisure and entertainment.

Sure we need some rest, but we’re not designed for a permanent pit stop until our race is over! The padded seats of the grandstand beckon, and we surmise now is our time to just sit back and watch other racers circle the track. It’s sure more fun than whining and complaining!

Not grasping our changing but still influential roles as older adults, we can lose the drive to stay fully engaged in our churches. When it comes to making a real difference in others’ lives, many older adults shift into idle gear. Allowing vocational retirement to propel us into spiritual retirement, we climb all too willingly into the grandstand, fully investing ourselves in the role of spectator. Some see the grandstand as a pre-taste of heaven, finally receiving the good things promised, now with minimal responsibility or accountability.

“This is the life! It’s what we’ve worked so hard forall these years. So please don’t think we’ve retired to serve more. This is our time to kick back and enjoy. We’ve earned it.”

One mistake here is associating joy only with kicking back. Kickback joy can be real, is often well deserved, but is always temporary. Give back joy found in obeying God and serving others is both real and eternal.

“If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it.” Jesus in Mark 8:35 (NLT)

Another mistake is trying to convince older adults that they are not entitled. Good luck!  It’s a losing battle. We’re so quick to criticize entitlement attitudes in others but remain intensely protective of our own entitlements.

Jesus, the rich young ruler, and the Apostle Paul were all entitled. Becoming a servant is really a test of our willingness to lay down our earthly entitlements to please and obey our Heavenly Father.

 

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Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 12:2-3 (NIV)

When I Survey, the Wondrous Cross Usually Gets Bumped

In the first verse of Hebrews 12 we’re reminded that we have a great grandstand or cloud of witnesses surrounding us as we run the race with perseverance.

The grandstand of witnesses named in the preceding chapter had a few things in common. They all walked in faith, made culturally unpopular choices, and didn’t enter the grandstand until they departed from life on earth. The grandstand isn’t a viable option for living heroes of faith. Even as our age advances, God may call us away from what’s easy, routine and comfortable.

By definition, unpopular choices requiring faith will not be popular in most group activity preference surveys. We need to individually and collectively hear God’s voice, deny ourselves, pick up our cross and follow Him (Mark 8:34). Group preference surveys may have some value, but they don’t typically lead us to the cross!

At the core, it’s about walking in faith to the very end, being willing to do whatever God is asking of us. He may want us to slow down and visit a museum with friends, perhaps share Christ with a friend we’ve invited to accompany us on the museum tour. At times He calls us to step up and offer a helping hand. Sometimes He wants our wisdom to touch a young couple needing direction. At other times He may call us to step away from the crowd to hear His voice, simply to be content in His presence. And often He wants us to choose seemingly harder, less popular, and less predictable paths.

The 18th century German writer, Goethe, penned this, “The dangers of life are infinite, and among them is safety.”

Those who lived their lives based on popular personal preferences, with attitudes of earthly entitlement and early spiritual retirement, did not qualify for the Hebrews 11 Hall of Fame.

In chapter 11:13-14 (NIV), the writer of Hebrews says, “All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth. People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own [heaven].”

 

So, if you’ve administered a survey and learned where all your adults want to play, rejoice in your job security! You have a big job ahead, helping this playful bunch discover the joy of full-throttle serving and obedience.

As you lead your group further down the serving track, we encourage you to move the discussion beyond where they want to go to where God would have them serve. No matter what surveys say, stay close to your calling as a leader with this Scriptural mandate:

“to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ…From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” Ephesians 4:12, 13, 16 (NIV)

 

Wes and Judy Wick are co-founders of YES! Young Enough to Serve, an organization that celebrates the joy of extended fruitfulness. YES! helps harness the gifts of longevity, health, wisdom and life experience of adults in life’s later seasons. Learn more at www.yestoserve.org.

 

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SO WHAT’S ALL THE FUSS ABOUT AGEISM?




2008 Open Championship - Tom Watson



No one anticipated that Tom Watson, at nearly 60 years of age, was young enough to be a serious contender in the Open Championship.  Perhaps no one but Tom Watson himself.

The world loves unlikely heroes. We can expect to see Tom Watson on the cover of dozens of magazines both inside and outside the sports arena.

In the end, the victorious 36-year-old Stewart Cink was at center stage, more in line with our definition of a likely hero.  But he was flanked by 16-year-old Italian amateur, Matteo Manassero, and the 59-year-old Watson.  Three generations together in the limelight, all demonstrating tremendous talent and poise in this major golf tournament.

What can we as Christians in our second half of life glean from these four days when the old guy remained at the top of the leader board after 72 holes?

SO WHAT’S ALL THE FUSS ABOUT AGEISM IF THE WHOLE WORLD WAS ROOTING FOR THE OLD GUY?

With everyone rooting for the past champion, it may seem like ageism is not a true problem. But ageism often surfaces in our low expectations for people based on their age.  It’s not that we’re against or in direct combat with older adults or young whippersnappers.  We just don’t expect much from them and treat them as outsiders, off our radar.  We forget about their current value and under-estimate their potential.

Yes, we all celebrate when the young and old break age barriers.  But all too commonly, negative stereotypes based on age reinforce timidity and diminish opportunity, inside and outside the Church.  We are called to encourage the timid, not write them off.

God values every generation and calls us to the same.  It’s not just the older generations who get stuck with negative stereotypes.  It can happen to persons of all ages.  May we encourage those both inside and outside our peer group to pursue their godly potential!

LESSONS FROM THE LINKS:

Here are a few free lessons for those young enough to serve, even those of you with little to no interest in the game of golf:

◦   Tom Watson stayed in the game. He didn’t let his age tell him to stop competing.

◦   He didn’t let others’ low expectations of him define his potential.  At the start of the competition his odds of winning were calculated at 1000 to 1.  But he felt fine and approached the event with confidence.  Even hip replacement surgery last October didn’t stop him.

◦   He kept preparing.  He knew that his past laurels would not be enough to carry him.  His practice rounds boosted his confidence.

◦   He remained realistic about his abilities.  In a post-event interview, he confessed that some competitions such as the Masters at Augusta were pretty much beyond his scope unless he played perfectly.

◦   He wasn’t content just playing “ceremonial” golf, simply showing up and being honored as a past champion.  He wanted to compete on the merits of his current abilities.

◦   He was attracted by the unique challenges of the course at Turnberry, knowing they were a great match for his experience, maturity, and skills.  His knowledge of the course and strategic game plan had the potential to keep him in serious contention.  It was the difficulty, not the ease, of the course and conditions that kept him in the game.

◦   His story brought special excitement to the game.  One commentator said that Watson’s near triumph made all of us feel about twenty years younger.

Close counts.  Don’t believe the old adage that close only counts in horseshoes. Although Tom didn’t get his name engraved again on the Claret Jug, coming that close to winning was very significant and inspiring.

Every generation of golf fans was rooting for Tom.  His potential victory was not viewed as a setback for younger generations.  It was unifying.

◦   In the end, golf is just a game.  But it can also be a great tool for relationship-builiding and for influence with your peers and younger generations.  Scripture is full of references to athletic competition, and the real value comes when we can carry these inspirations into our daily lives, our relationship with God and our relationship with others.

The Word is also full of unlikely heroes.  Many, if not most, of our heroes of the faith were under-estimated because of stereotypes based on their young age, old age, vocation, location, education, race, or even their circle of friends.  Jesus Himself, the stone that the builders rejected, became our Chief Cornerstone.

May stories like this go beyond inspiring us to get the clubs out of the attic.  Many other important victories await us in the second half of life!  We are not called to just watch unlikely heroes from the sidelines.  Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.

With Christ’s help, let’s follow His calling through the final round. And let’s become unlikely heroes in our own churches and communities.

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